I follow your train of thought. And I think it might play some part in it.
Borland's particular case may or may not be part of what you're saying, but I think at least as a society...we are getting weaker, more secluded, angrier and more entitled. George Carlin did a funny bit on children worship many years ago, that sadly rings true today and speak to a bit of what you bring to light.
Beware, there is some language. It's George Carlin after all!